Tuesday 23 November 2010

Then and Now - How The Internet Has Changed Sex

How things have changed when it comes to meeting a suitable partner for some happy shagging. Back in the 80s it was so much more difficult to meet for a simple bonk because in most cases you had to go through the ritual of talking, dating, etc etc before you could get to the horny bit.

I am sure women were just as horny as today but the whole subject of simple sex for pleasure was largely suppressed. Wife swapping parties were regarded as the height of decadence and prostitutes seen as dirty sluts living off the streets.

It was during this time that I had my first experience of a truly liberated woman. She was about 15 years older than me and of course married. Tall, great figure and always smelt delicious. We worked at the same place and chatted from time to time but no more. I lusted from afar.

Then one day after I had left that company we met by accident at an event. Over lunch we laughed, gazed into each other's eyes, rubbed legs, kissed and drove straight out to a quiet spot where I got to hold her magnificent breasts bursting out from her blouse. We fucked deep and hard and then kissed goodbye and drove off in different directions.


That was to be the start of a wonderful relationship that lasted over many many years until sadly she died not so long ago. During that time we both went through various stages of marriage and partners,  but nothing ever stopped the simple pleasure we gained from meeting for some wonderful lusty sex. No stresses, just meet, lust and laugh.

Now these days, thanks to the amazing ability of the internet, it is just so much easier to find suitable partners for a relationship based solely on lust. While clearly there are some time wasters and nutters around, you know that when you meet someone through Illicit Encounters, Fab Swingers, or any of the other many sites around that you should be looking for the same thing.

And the thing I believe most are looking for is simple horny sexy lust. Someone to share naughty pleasures with away from all the other realities of life. There are plenty of reasons that any of us give for having such a hobby, but you have only got to look at the literally millions of people signed on to such sites to recognise that it is a massive market. We are not all perverts!

Swingers clubs, escorts, naughty knicker shops, web sites etc etc are all doing a cracking business and underlining the fact that these days sex can be seen by some as a great source of exercise and fun - just like badminton. The internet has made that so much more possible, so from me and all the rest of you out there having the sexy time of your life, let's say a big thank you to the WWW.

Sunday 21 November 2010

In the beginning...

When I was a teenager the whole subject of sex seemed surrounded by secrecy and appeared an almost unachievable pinnacle  for me and so many other friends. Very few actually knew the details it seemed, and sex education at my posh public school was non existent. My parents gave me a book which talked about seeds and things but no-one actually told us what to do!

Such was my own level of innocence that when I got a prospective young lady to drop her pants in the long grass, neither of us actually knew what to do. And when sometime later I accidentally experienced my first orgasm it was like an exocet missile going off. I was in shock but I was learning!

Eventually of course I found my way and began learning the many delights and complications that go hand in hand with sex. And what was plain back in the swinging 60s and 70s was that sex was seen by the majority as making love and with it came the complications of relationships, feelings, etc etc. Tricky stuff.

So what a sheer delight it is to find that in the 21st century sex is becoming more seen as an simple pleasure rather than an act of 'making love'. With every PC in the land capable of unveiling just about every sexy secret you could ever want to know innocence has just about disappeared. And what has replaced it seems to be a breed of men and women who just want to enjoy sex in all its different ways. Threesums, couple swaps, gang bangs, sex parties...at one time they would have shocked. Today for many they are becoming a very enjoyable way of life.

And what is very clear is that while our youngsters grow up totally in the picture and all ready to shag away at the earliest opportunity, those of us in our 40s, 50s, 60s and even 70s are pretty keen to grab some fun while we can too.

So great stuff I say. Of course sex can be seen as making love (and babies) but outside of that it can also be simple a great way to have fun. So shagging 'Just For Lust' will be the theme of this blog aimed at sharing lusty horny thoughts with everyone to help us all gain the most from our time on this earth.

It may offend some. If it does I am sorry but you are in the wrong place. This is a corner of the floaty world of the internet aimed specifically at those with naughty thoughts in mind.